Every day we come face to face with issues and problems, deal with our kids, family, friends and co-workers and we bitch and moan but at the end of the day we regroup and get ready for tomorrow.
Rarely do we really look at ourselves and say how lucky we are to be able to do all these things and survive to see the next day with little more than some passing stress. No big deal, nothing life changing.
Recently, at the library looking at movies to borrow, I picked up a documentary called correct format for college application essay and I was apprehensive about it and wasn’t sure if I should bring it home.
The story chronicles the young filmmaker and his battle with multiple sclerosis. My wife of 23 years has battled this disease for 21 of those years and counting, and although she is one of the bravest people I know and has never given into this disease, I was not sure how she would view this film that would force her to look at her disease and realize how truly devastating it can be.
I brought the movie home.
She was a bit apprehensive when she looked at the box, but we watched it, cried with it, felt deeply close to Mr. DaSilva and his journey and how he continued to move forward through his adversity.
I did not regret bringing this home and I believe we were all the better for sharing it together.
We all have heroes that we look up to: sports figures, world leaders, teachers, movie and TV stars, but sometimes we overlook the people closest to us.
My wife has continued to live life, raise children and push her limits even though she knows she will pay consequences afterwards.
Her disease has not stopped her from living day-to-day and dealing with those everyday stresses. We have all learned to help a little more, go a little slower, appreciate the little things and celebrate small victories.
I know my kids and I have learned some important lessons on life and how to deal with true adversity, as their mom continues to inspire us every day.