A scene in the movie “London Has Fallen” features the president and his trusted Secret Service agent, whose wife is pregnant with their first child.
The agent asks the president for advice about fatherhood and parenting.
You just need to keep two things in mind, the president replies: Teach your kid the Golden Rule and encourage them to pursue their passions in life.
That latter part really resonated with me.
When I was growing up, if I heard from my dad once, I heard a thousand times:
Follow your passions in life. Don’t be like your old man. A man who loves his job never works a day in his life.
And my favorite: “If you are happy diapering piss clams, diaper piss clams.” Forty years later I still have NO IDEA what he was talking about but I got his drift.
From about the time that I was 8 or 9, I wanted to be a newsman.
I had an avid interest in current affairs, a love for writing and a curiosity about the world.
I routinely would race down three flights of stairs from our apartment in the Bronx if I heard the fire trucks turning onto our street.
I’d write mock scripts, relying on accounts from the newspapers, and then tape myself on my cassette recorder pretending to be a television newscaster.
And when I got my very own camera — well! That opened up a whole new world of possibilities for me. I took photos of crashes, blizzards and crime scenes.
On one memorable occasion when I was about 11, my buddy told me there had been a shooting the night before about 20 minutes from where we lived.
We furiously biked to the scene, where we learned the car had been towed to our local police station.
We got to the station, and there it was in the garage: A blue car with bullet holes in the windshield and bloody bandages still on its hood.
I snapped a bunch of photos, which I still have.
I never gave up on my pursuit of news as a career. Every opportunity I had to write, to learn or to network, I seized with both hands.
I earned a degree in journalism at New York University, and got an internship at what was then New York Newsday, working with some of the sharpest reporting minds of the time.
I mention all of this because of a 9-year-old girl in Selinsgrove, Pa., named Hilde Kate Lysiak. She publishes and reports for her own homegrown neighborhood newspaper and website, The Orange Street News.
She became a media sensation when she broke the news of a murder in her neighborhood and then responded to critics who questioned what a 9-year-old girl was doing covering killings.
In her video rebuttal, Hilde pointedly spoke back at those who suggested she should be playing with dolls or having tea parties instead.
What came across so strongly was that Hilde was passionately dedicated to her work.
She reminded me of myself at her age.
And 30 years into my career, I can say that passion has paid off.
I’ve come full circle in a way because I was able to write a story about Hilde as a staff reporter at The New York Times.
So you go, Hilde! Take it from me, whatever your passion is, never give up on it.